Posts by thinkers wife

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Hello all / Test / Thankyou!

by unclebruce in

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friends

g'day folks,.

just testing - nothing to write home about.

i have heard you guys are having a good time, i've been skimming through the posts - some very interesting stuff.

thinkers wife

RHW,
I would never undercut you! Let's just have a party and show him how.
TW

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Hello...Hello...Hello (cont) #3

by Prisca in

well someone had to do it, so it might as well be prim & proper prisca to do the honors in the sex forum...... .

this thread is for all newbies to introduce yourselves.

whatever you feel happy to reveal about yourself.

thinkers wife

TH,
Never tell a woman you have a secret. You're killing me here.
TW

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Hello...Hello...Hello (cont) #3

by Prisca in

well someone had to do it, so it might as well be prim & proper prisca to do the honors in the sex forum...... .

this thread is for all newbies to introduce yourselves.

whatever you feel happy to reveal about yourself.

thinkers wife

Circare,
Glad to hear from you. Tried to chat with you once. But wasn't working properly.
TW

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Hello...Hello...Hello (cont) #3

by Prisca in

well someone had to do it, so it might as well be prim & proper prisca to do the honors in the sex forum...... .

this thread is for all newbies to introduce yourselves.

whatever you feel happy to reveal about yourself.

thinkers wife

Welcome Normie,
Sounds like you have a tough thing to deal with. This is the place to air your feelings. Been a life saver for me.
TW

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Introducing myself..hello all...

by DannyBear in

jw
friends

i'am dannybear i have been lurking around here from time to time, for the last several weeks.

this forum seems to be a friendly group, not to mention i see jt, englishman, focus, waiting and few others that are very familiar to me from h20.. i live in california.

i was raised as a jw (third generation), got the unceremonious 'boot'(df)in 1980-81 been so long..i can't remember the actual date.

Thanks for the Welcome

by Thirdson in

jw
friends

sorry i am a bit late posting this.

thank you for your messages of welcome and your replies to my odd few posts.

i am sorry that some are upset at some of things i have written.

Welcome Thirdson,
Don't know anything about the hoo hah. So I am open. Haven't meant to ignore you. Just busy welcoming so many new one's. Could you post your bio on Hello Hello thread. On the sex forum. Prissy Prisca's idea. (her words kind of)
TW

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Hello...Hello...Hello (cont) #3

by Prisca in

well someone had to do it, so it might as well be prim & proper prisca to do the honors in the sex forum...... .

this thread is for all newbies to introduce yourselves.

whatever you feel happy to reveal about yourself.

thinkers wife

Expatbrit,
Good luck! Hope the fading out works for you. I chose the tough road. Many times either way you go the results are the same.
TW

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Hello...Hello...Hello (cont) #3

by Prisca in

well someone had to do it, so it might as well be prim & proper prisca to do the honors in the sex forum...... .

this thread is for all newbies to introduce yourselves.

whatever you feel happy to reveal about yourself.

thinkers wife

NikL,
Welcome to you too. My post to CPiolo is the same for you. Good luck!
TW

Edited by - Thinkers Wife on 20 February 2001 9:2:29

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Hello...Hello...Hello (cont) #3

by Prisca in

well someone had to do it, so it might as well be prim & proper prisca to do the honors in the sex forum...... .

this thread is for all newbies to introduce yourselves.

whatever you feel happy to reveal about yourself.

thinkers wife

CPiolo,
Your post breaks my heart. How very difficult for you. I think Larc's, and RHW, and Grunts replies were all wonderful.
I da'ed my self last June. I had met a wonderful man (non JW) in April. And we got married in June. He has made a tremendous effort to understand JW's. He really had no idea what they were about until he met me. His effort to understand has been a huge help to me.
I think the converse could be true with you. Be as supportive as you can be with your wife. And do take the suggestions to spend as much time as possible with she and your son. The more loving and kind you are the more of a contrast she should see between you and the witnesses. Because in my experience, many congregations as a whole (not individually) are not very loving. She may find little support for someone in her situation. (i.e. married to a worldly raging lunatic their viewpoint not mine) And the lack of love and concern may get to her. Also RHW, made a good point. When you met her she was inactive, she may have had doubts, and if so still has them. They have to develop on their own. No one can force them, least of all you. Let them play out. If she has had them, they are still there and will have to come out sometime. But maybe just not according to the timetable you would like. Love her, need her, show her how much. That is all you can do right now. Appreciate her for the good things you listed. Many marriages, unfortunately don't have near that much going for them. You have a lot.
I have so many more things floating around in my head. Don't want to fill up the page.
Just know we are thinking of you and hoping. BTW, my husband is Thinker on the forum.
TW

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Hello...Hello...Hello (cont) #3

by Prisca in

well someone had to do it, so it might as well be prim & proper prisca to do the honors in the sex forum...... .

this thread is for all newbies to introduce yourselves.

whatever you feel happy to reveal about yourself.

thinkers wife

MGM,
I think we are in a similiar place. I da'ed in June of 2000. I knew what to expect. Sort of. Living it and knowing it are two different things. I am so glad you have your immediate family around you. Cherish your extra time with them.
TW